The New Norm

I must confess that I was overwhelmed by the almost daily WhatsApp messages from Noah’s register teacher. These started streaming in way before the Easter school holidays, just before the lockdown was announced. From pictures with information and motivational messages to forward to Noah, to videos from the principal and links to fun and educational activities. It got to a point where I avoided WhatsApp for hours, well at least until I had sat down to enjoy my first morning cuppa, my ritual early in the morning while everyone else is still fast asleep…. absolute bliss. A time when the house is so quiet you can hear your heartbeat, and the birds.

On normal school days I wake up at 06:15 so I was very happy to get the extra 45 minutes of sleep. My alarm was set for 7am as Noah’s online class was due to begin at 8am. The MS Teams App had been downloaded for weeks and he had his profile set up too. Matthew tested the headphones and built in microphone. The only thing we hadn’t tested was the laptop camera, we had no reason to believe it could malfunction. Moreover, he had to have his teacher or fellow classmates on the other side to test it. That’s our story and we are sticking to it….

Noah was starting to stress, this was a few minutes before his first ever online class. Mommy, daddy and eventually big brother were surrounding him trying to troubleshoot this camera issue. Fortunately his teacher was patient and understanding and luckily for us we had Plan B. A couple of hours later Noah plonked his body on his bed, he was overwhelmed: “mommy, I don’t think I can manage all that work today”. I did my best to reassure him that we are here for assistance and support. I must be honest, I was also overwhelmed when I saw the main page with 7 subject folders. I looked at his MS Teams files and found he only had to do a total of 3 hours of work on his own today. It took a lot of convincing for him to understand that ‘Week 1’ work was to completed over a week and ‘Week 1 to 4’ could be completed over a month, with Week 3 & 4 being after the lockdown (fingers crossed).  He logged off just after 2pm and the heavy air around our home was lifted.

This e-learning topic brings me to a trending debate on social media, tuition fees, especially where private schools are concerned. It was highlighted and discussed on one of the news channels. It is simple, we stop paying and the teachers stop receiving their salaries. What happens then, they seek employment to offer private lessons to those who can afford? What happens after lockdown? Our kids go back to school without teachers? What about the hours spent on training sessions to enable them to facilitate online classes? These took place during the Easter school holiday break, a time that was meant for exactly that purpose….a break from our brats. What about the hours spent preparing for those online classes?

Our eldest started his Easter school holiday on the same week of the lockdown and he was meant to reopen on 6 April, so he will only miss out 3 weeks of normal school by the time it is lifted, hopefully. Noah was meant to break a couple of days after lockdown and he was meant to return to school today, meaning he will only miss out on 2 weeks and 2 days of schooling. Now I ask, is it fair to expect a tuition rebate or a discount?

My Humble Opinion: We are so privileged and we don’t take that for granted. Imagine the millions of kids without phones, tablets, laptops and PC’s. Imagine the millions without DATA, ADSL and Fibre. Imagine the millions of kids whose parents are clueless about logging into a computer, thus being unable to give assistance and support. Imagine the millions of families who cannot afford private lessons should it become necessary.

Teachers have families too, they have feelings too and they do get overwhelmed at times, just like we do. Imagine a teacher that has to attend to queries and questions from 24 kids (or more), online. Bear in mind the challenges that come with old laptops with malfunctioning cameras, pathetic internet speeds, disconnections and network interruptions. You could not pay me enough to become a teacher, and if anyone made an enticing offer too great, you could, with great confidence, bet all that money that I would be fired on the first day, before the first break.

“We are under lockdown and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it. Let us embrace this new norm, there are lessons to be learnt from this”– Sonia Booth

5 thoughts on “The New Norm

  1. Beautifully written Sonia! This period is definitely teaching us so much, including gratitude. We took a lot of things for granted…the things we deem basics (wifi, laptops etc) are not so for others. Trying to teach/help my kids with their school work was highly testing for me…my patience drastically fell below zero in minutes!🙈
    I recall after 3 attempts of explaining the same concept, staring at my child at one point thinking “Are you like this at school too?” 🙈😅
    Teachers, you are truly one of the most under-rated and least celebrated heroes. Thank you for all your sacrifices and embracing this new norm the way you haev. You are saluted!

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  2. I can’t imagine what this must be like because my kids are not with me. Even though thousands of miles away, I still get the frustrated video call from my 12yr old.
    What was normal, will never be the norm again…

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  3. It is the new norm indeed and if anything, it has reminded me why I wouldn’t have made a good teacher 😂😂
    If people want to pay less for anything, maybe it should be insurance.

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  4. Sonia! I love how you wrote this and fully supportive that teachers are under paid and that they are truly incredible I don’t think the answer is begin to pay them
    Less for the two jobs they are doing: online class as well as normal school for those who are coming to school. I mean these “saints” don’t get a break and stay up till so late working marking preparing over weekends in the early hours of the morning.

    There is a huge sacrifice they are also making and to suggest that because it’s online school because a small part of the population enjoys online and should pay less is a mistake- they need every cent they earn- they put up with students that don’t even turn in assignments on time – and are expected to compile reports on last minute work…

    Having been home with my kids solidly for four months helping them following up on them seeing what time the teachers stay up until to get their prep work done juggle load shedding and still manage their lives as well- I have a whole new level of respect- teaching is truly a calling- and we need to honour our teachers at every turn we can. Making sure they are at least getting what they would normally be paid is the minimum- to put that on the line in unconscionable. Especially NOW.

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